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Maybe I'm still a naïve sap. The country that I grew up in was proud of who it was, proud of the things it stood for, proud of its diversity and proud of the principles of equality and liberty that it was founded on. But I'm all grown up now and I know a lot more about the way things really are. I know that the truth is sometimes ugly. I know that for some, at different times throughout our entire history and for different reasons, America wasn't the land of opportunity and freedom as described in the Bill of Rights.
Some might say, “So what? It happens. Life isn't always fair. Besides, that's all in the past. There's nothing anyone can do about it, so what's the point?”
And sure, that's one way to look at it. But it's just one of the two choices you have when faced with serious social issues like this. Either you decide it's not worth the effort, so you do nothing. Or you decide that it is, and you do. Those are your options.
From time to time, I can be a sarcastic, jaded, caustic, godless gay douche, and yet as corny as it sounds I still believe in the core American values of equality and personal freedom. You can say whatever you want, and in fact, the 1st Amendment gives you that right, but the US is still a country where everyone is free to be themselves, free to do, say, and believe what they want - so long as it doesn't prevent anyone else from doing, saying, or believing what they want. That's pretty much how it works, this whole notion of “free but equal.” Yet, I'm continually surprised by how many people don't seem to get that.
America believes in freedom of religion but religions often do not.
We, Americans, take our religious freedom for granted; that every one of us is free to believe what we choose to. But it is here, isn't it, where the whole entire issue, this controversy, begins to jump the rails? Because even though we believe in our own right to believe in whatever we want, there are some who don't believe that this freedom should be universally, that everyone should be entitled to this right, do they? In fact, there are some people who believe that their beliefs are the “only true and acceptable beliefs” and everyone else should believe exactly what they believe, and frankly, many of them also believe that it is their "mission" to do something about it.
It's one thing to believe that your beliefs are the “only correct beliefs” and everyone else's are not; it's quite another to believe that you have both the authority and duty to active go about trying impose your beliefs on others, regardless of what they want.
I begin to loose it when one American thinks that it is perfectly all right to trample on another American's right to believe what he wants to believe! How the fuck does that work, exactly, because I really want to know? You bet your ass, this kind of unconstitutional unrepentant arrogance makes me just a little less charming and amenable than I am, ordinarily, during the rest of the God damn week!!!
In a nutshell, this is why stripping religious organizations who advocate this activity of their tax-exempt privileges is not only fair, it's a necessity. When religious organizations believe that they have the authority to disregard the civil liberties and freedoms of other American citizens, then their own privileges and legal rights need to be countermanded with equal zeal.
But the sad fact is, none of this should be happening. Why we can't let each other believe differently, I'll never know - especially when it entails such silly trivial things? Regrettably, I am all too aware that we have a long and consistent history of having to learn these social lessons the hard way.
And if you want to know, I feel bad for the Mormons who disagreed with what their own church was doing, for its deliberate political assault on another group of Americans. Prop 8 and other state referendums like it, have set off firestorm of hatred and resentment in the gay community. I understand it, but I don't agree with it. It's not only wrong, but serves to only increases the level of animosity on all sides. The “friendly” Mormons (depending on what side you are on) have been caught in middle unfortunately—reviled by both sides, and for what? For sticking to their own beliefs in opposition to the will of their church, and for exercising that freedom all Americans are supposed to have, that's what. Please don't take this analogy any further than I intend it, but I can't help but think that they must feel a little like how the Japanese Americans must have, right after the attack on Pearl Harbor, who were treated like the enemy in their own country, even though you're not. Nice, huh?
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MEDIA REFERENCES: YouTube: ANP - Did Mormons go too far: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWCum9yQhTg
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